You Are Not Alone


Everyone is dealing with inner deamons, no matter how put together they seem on the outside. You are not alone.

You humble me. I am so honored to have your eyes on this screen and your heart opened.

My last post asked for guidance to help unlock my creative flow and you more than delivered. I was astonished at the amount of responders. (If you haven’t yet given your two cents, it’s not too late, go here.)

I had been having serious self-doubt issues and I realized you, my lovely readers, held the key. And I was RIGHT! *pats herself on the back* ย ๐Ÿ™‚

I knew you would give me great ideas and inspiration as to which direction I should head, but what I wasn’t prepared for was the authenticity and bravery you showed.

The raw, sometimes painful opening of your soul.

And for that I am honored. Even though the survey was anonymous, I felt I knew you. I felt I was looking into your heart, because I can relate with almost every single thing that you said.

I was in awe of the candor in which you answered. You elaborated and shared your pains and struggles with me and brought me to tears. Each response made me want to wrap you in my arms and tell you,

“It’s going to be all right.ย We will get through this life. We will thrive in this life. Together.”

So, to all my sweet souls dealing with anxiety;

All you who struggle with fear and self-doubt;

Who carry guilt and shame;

Who feel stagnant or invisible;

To those who need courage to be themselves and make a first step toward their goals;

Who struggle with money, time, or motivation;

Who just need to get out of their own way;

I want you to know you are not alone!

And finally, to the sweet souls who:

“Don’t know who they are anymore,”

“Feel like a fraud,”

and are trying to keep from becoming invisible as they age . . .

I. Get. You.

I SOย get you!

I have been there.


No matter how put together people seem on the outside, every single person on this planet fights inner demons of some sort.

[Tweet “Everyone fights inner demons, even Beyonce. #realtalk”]

The first step is recognizing what our demons are and giving them a name.

The next step is realizing that we deserve happiness. That we want a change. That we are ready to deal with the demons.

And finally, to admit we aren’t perfect, that we stumble, and sometimes we need support.


Each of these steps we have taken, just by being here and opening up.

Now, in the weeks and months ahead, it’s time for the next steps. The steps that will lessen the power of these demons and return us to joy.

Steps we will take together so we can live the best, boldest life possible.

Thank you for being on the journey with me!

Salty Kisses,

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10 responses to “You Are Not Alone”

  1. I think everyone has moments of self doubt, good days and bad days. The key is to not give in to it and push through it. Persevere! Stay positive! Each day is a learning experience, so take from it whatever kernel you can, stick it in your pocket and go forward.

    • Yes Lisa! That is what I need to remember, that it happens to everyone. I love it . . . “each day is a learning experience.” I’m going to remember that! Thank you so much for visiting and for your comment! ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. You always write something that is really on-point for me. Such a beautiful post—- (it could almost be on your ABOUT page) ๐Ÿ™‚

  3. Beautiful Karen! Self-doubt rears its three heads every once in awhile. Sometimes it serves as gut check. Sometimes it can be paralysing. None of us are alone in the feelings we feel. thanks for being YOU!

    • Awww thank you Peggy! I appreciate your support! It’s funny . . . just when I’m feeling like I know what the heck I’m doing-BAM I get taken down a notch! haha I think you’re right . . . it is an important gut check! I am learning to be patient with myself and let myself feel while encouraging myself to keep moving! I appreciate your comment as always! xx

  4. What a powerful message to hear and how great that you want to hear what your readers are struggling with. Being able to touch people is what gets me excited about blogging.

    • Oh Laurie! That makes me so happy. As a blogger, it’s hard to know if what I write reaches anyone who needs it so I appreciate you letting me know! xoxo