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What Keeps You From Reaching Your Dreams?

What is holding you back from reaching your full potential? Here is permission to go after your dreams.

What is holding you back from reaching your full potential? Here is permission to go after your dreams.

 

What keeps you from reaching your dreams?

Are you giving yourself permission to chase after your dreams?

What do you tell yourself that holds you back?

What keeps you from reaching for the highest star?

After talking about the importance of letting our inner self shine through, I started wondering what prevents us from having the courage, in every situation, to show the world who we really are?

I saw a fantastic video that included a commencement speech given by Denzel Wasington where he quoted Les Brown.

“Imagine you’re on your death-bed. Standing around you are the ghosts of your unfulfilled potential. The ideas you never acted on. The talents you didn’t use. And they’re standing around your bed angry, disappointed, and upset. They said, ‘We came to you because you could have brought us to life. And now we have to go to the grave together.”
Mr. Washington continued, “So, I ask you today, how many ghosts are going to be around your bed when you die?”

How many ghosts of unfulfilled potential will surround us when we die? Disappointed that we never nurtured them and shared them with the world?

Can you picture it? The ghosts of all the things inside you that you haven’t set free? Things you’re passionate about but haven’t nurtured. Opinions and thoughts you’ve kept tucked safely away. Plans you have developed but haven’t acted on. Dreams that are waiting patiently to be set into motion.

Let’s not die with these unfulfilled dreams and plans still inside us. Let’s bring them to life and see where they’ll take us.

Ask yourself some questions:

  • What keeps me from sharing my deep soulful intentions and creative talents with others?
  • What stops me from just going for it?
  • What holds me back from acting on each and every juicy idea I have?
  • What makes me want to hide my magnificent self?

There are several things that make it difficult to feel secure in sharing our true, inner self. 

  • Fear of being vulnerable
  • Expectations of others
  • Negative feedback
  • Lack of confidence
  • Doubt
  • Judgment
  • Criticism
  • Fear of failure

The common denominator in each of the these is that they all stem from something outside of ourselves. They are all based on trying to be what others’ tell us to be instead of who we truly are inside.

The way to overcome insecurities is to realize how significant we are.

  • To believe that we are more courageous than our doubt and fear.
  • To believe we are more powerful than anything outside of ourselves.
  • To believe on the cellular level that we were made perfectly.

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The ideas and dreams in our brains and our hearts are not there by chance. Something greater than ourselves placed them there. It is up to us to put them into motion.

Something larger than ourselves gave us intrinsic gifts and talents and the ability to bring our dreams to fruition. But, we must have the courage to be who we are and use them.

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Only when we have the courage to express our true selves; to risk negative feedback, to risk disappointing others, and even to risk failure, can we achieve all that is possible.

So, when we are on our death-bed, the only ghosts we will have standing next to us will be the ones of our fulfilled potential. The ideas and talents we acknowledged, valued, nurtured, and brought to life.

Standing by us will be the ghosts of our realized dreams. And after an authentic life, vibrantly lived to exhaustion, they will say,

“Well done.”

Salty Kisses,

Karen

It’s Not Who You Are That Holds You Back, It’s Who You Think You’re Not

Does anything keep you from expressing your true self? What keeps you from reaching your dreams?

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Karen Shatafian

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25 responses to “What Keeps You From Reaching Your Dreams?”

    • Oh Sheena I am so glad to hear that! I love it when we come across just the right post at just the right time. I think a lot of people are where you’re at. Myself included! Thank you for your lovely comment.

    • Thank you Gigi! That is so nice of you to say. I think this post really resonated with a lot of people. Myself included! I am glad it came to you at the perfect time! Thank you for visiting and for your comment! 🙂

  3. You left out money! Ha ha!

    Really though, I am trying to use more of my talents than before. Thus why I picked up writing again. It has been a great experience.

    Have a good weekend!

    • You are so right Steve! I did a periscope broadcast last week talking about this topic and money was a big one!! I am glad you’ve picked up writing again! You have a good weekend as well!

    • Ahh Michelle! I think we all do! We seem to somehow forget how fabulous we are! I am glad you came across it! Thank you for taking time to read it and for the comment!

  12. Karen, WOW. I love and relate to this so much!! I was actually just looking at Les Brown quotes last night. Definitely on board with everything you said. Can’t wait to see more posts from you 🙂