Creating A Life You Love
There are many ingredients that go into creating a life you love. But, there are three components that I feel are absolutely necessary.
Are you living a life you’re in love with?
If not, maybe these key elements are missing.
To create a life you love:
- You need to listen to yourself. You need to stop silencing that inner wisdom inside you.
- You need courage. You need to believe you are brave enough to go after and achieve your goals.
- You need to allow yourself to dream. Your dreams are the only dreams that will make you happy.
Listen to your inner voice:
First, you need to stop and listen to what your soul is telling you about who you are. About what you like, what you want, and what you wish for. If you aren’t in touch with who you are on the inside, you and the life you live on the outside will never be congruent.
And if your inner self and outer life aren’t in sync, you will either (a) stay safely tucked inside your comfort zone, never having the confidence to be who you truly are or (b) end up living according to someone else’s life; chasing someone else’s dreams.
Each of these scenarios will only bring you dissatisfaction and heartache. So get in tune with who you are so you know in which direction you need to head to create a life you love.
Find the courage:
Once you are listening to your inner voice and are aware of what you truly want in this life, you need the courage to go after it.
It may be hard. You may feel unsure. Your dreams and desires may sound crazy to others; they may be things that other people don’t understand; they may be things people will judge.
You need to find the courage to pursue these dreams anyway.
It takes courage to march to the beat of your own drum, especially when some people may criticize the sound your drum makes or the way you do your marching. Find the courage to march anyway! This is the only way you will live in alignment with who you were created to be.
Chase your dreams:
Listening to your inner voice and having the courage to go after what you want are important ingredients in living a life you love. But, those won’t get you anywhere unless you take action. Unless you get off your butt, figure out what steps will lead you to your dreams, and get after it, you will NEVER make the most of all this life has to offer. And sadly, you will never be completely happy.
I believe that not listening to our inner voice, not finding our courage, and not chasing our dreams keeps us from living a life we love.
And what prevents us from having these three ingredients, what holds us back, is self-doubt.
When we doubt ourselves, we don’t listen to our inner voice. We don’t have the courage to be who we truly are and go after what we want. We don’t allow ourselves to chase our dreams.
Self-doubt keeps us from making the most of our one precious life.
And that just sucks!
Life is short Darling! I want you to live your life large and bright and full! I want you to listen to your inner wisdom, have the courage to charge life, and give yourself permission to go after those big, fat crazy dreams.
Because isn’t that the point?
If you need help adding these ingredients to your life and minimizing your self-doubt, sign up for my 6 day ecourse. It’s free. The only thing you have to lose are the self-defeating thoughts that hold you back and keep you from living a life you love.
Here’s to creating a life we are deliriously in love with.